Saturday, March 31, 2007

Five(5) Natural Emotions - Love

Suggested Reading: Grief ,Anger, Envy, and Fear.

Credits/Ideas: CWG, and Dr. Elisabeth Kubler Ross, Wikipedia

I saved the best for last!



When you were allowed to express and receive it, without conditions or limitations, without embarrasement or inhibition, it does not REQUIRE anything more. When as a child you were made to believe that having love is not okay, that to express it is wrong - you will have a very difficult time dealing with love when you grow up.

Yet LOVE which has been conditioned, limited, controlled, manipulated, and withheld becomes unnatural. Love repressed becomes possesiveness a very unnatural emotion.

Love is meant to be UNLIMITED, FREE and ETERNAL. True love means no "obligations" for it is always FREE... an obligation cannot exist in the space of love. See to it, that your decision of love is not a PROMISE made once but as a CHOICE made over and over... and resentment will never come.

Love should be UNCONDITIONAL.

This would mean loving everyone regardless of what they believe in, regardless of what they do. You give love freely.... no-matter-what.
If we deny love that is given to us, if we refuse to give love because we fear pain or loss, then our lives will be empty, our loss greater. - Author Unknown

You do not forsake and ignore someone because he/she have wronged you.... When you say "I LOVE YOU", fret not if you will not hear it back. And if you hear it back, DO NOT WORRY THAT YOU WOULD LOSE IT.

When you TRULY LOVE.... it is FOREVER. It never goes away... nor does it fades... you simply LOVE. Love is the energy that allows us to EXPAND, to OPEN UP, to SHARE, to CARE, and to HEAL.

This UNCONDITIONAL LOVE understands.... This UNCONDITIONAL LOVE conquers everything.

This love recognizes the beauty of everything.. This is the natural expression and response we have that REQUIRES NOTHING and DOES NOT EXPECT ANY OUTCOME.

You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection. - Buddha

But remember before you can love the people around you... you must learn to LOVE YOURSELF. Because, how can you say you love other people if you do not even love yourself ? It is like helping someone who does not want to be help himself/herself in the first place anyway.

Love yourself... then love other people unconditionally. :)
It is not how much you do, but how much Love you put into the doing that matters. - Mother Teresa
Do things with love. Cook with love, clean with love, and serve with love.


If you do everything with love..... you would overlook all the imperfections and ugliness... instead you would see the perfection and beauty of everything.

and I will let all the great people talk about love.....

If we make our goal to live a life of compassion and unconditional love, then the world will indeed become a garden where all kinds
of flowers can bloom and grow.

- Dr. Elisabeth K├╝bler-Ross, Late Author of On Death and Dying

As you continue to send out love, the energy returns to you in a regenerating spiral... As love accumulates, it keeps your system in balance and harmony. Love is the tool, and more love is the end product. - Sara Paddison, Hidden Power of the Heart

Our true identity is to love without fear and insecurity. Our higher potential finds us when we set our course in that direction. The power of love and compassion transforms insecurity. - Doc Childre

Love many things, for therein lies the true strength, and whosoever loves much perfoms much, and can accomplish much, and what is done in love is done well. -Vincent Van Gogh

I have never met a person whose greatest need was anything other than real, unconditional love. You can find it in a simple act of kindness toward someone who needs help. There is no mistaking love. You feel it in your heart. It is the common fiber of life, the flame of that heats our soul, energizes our spirit and supplies passion to our lives. It is our connection to God and to each other. - Elizabeth Kubler Ross

Much has been said about LOVE already.... and of course we all have different experiences and HAVE SOOO MUCH to share about this. (even me.. I have soo much in my mind and heart that I want to impart but then... I guess not now.)


Sidney said...

Sure, LOVE is th best on earth!
But like all good things it is rare !
Sidney | Homepage | 03.31.07 - 5:53 am |

Eli said...

ahhh.. love...
there's nothing you can do that can't be done.
nothing you can sing that can't be sung..
Nothing you can say but you can learn how to play the game...

All you need is Love.
eli | Homepage | 03.31.07 - 12:08 pm |

Nicole said...

ahhhwww LOVE!! yes love.. thats true love is eternal and unconditional..I hope that the one I love will love me back... huhuhu JAN!!! hehehe.. crush ko lang naman un hehe.take care ate.. I tagged you pala! mwah
nicole | Homepage | 03.31.07 - 4:06 pm |

Ychel said...

very well said, tina.

sa wakas nakumpleto din..hehe! the best for last. :P urself and love others unconditionally..u feel it and doesnt requires anything. just love itself and ur not supposed to asks something in return. love everything u do..

"love is rare!"...its true Sidney

thanks for sharing all this things tina. its really a big help at least we can think and realize wat does this feelings really mean. take care and have a good sunday.mwahugs...
ychel | Homepage | 03.31.07 - 5:35 pm |

Angelo said...

Ah love! To be young and idealistic again about that word would be grand Well Spring is in the air, so I guess love will be in the air too, with all the birds and animals mating :D
Angelo | Homepage | 03.31.07 - 11:43 pm |

pablo said...

And what happens to loving others before loving yourself crap?
Pablo | Homepage | 04.01.07 - 1:10 am

len said...

haii love! hehehe ganda po ng title save the best for last the best tlaga ang love and totoo nga pag di ka nag babahagi ng pagmamahal kc ntatakot ka masaktan you'll never learn and di mu rin mararanasan ang mahalin hehehe ganda ganda po ng mga topic nyu d2 chubra!
len | Homepage | 04.01.07 - 4:00 am |

dwin said...

nice and a good one..
dwin | Homepage | 04.01.07 - 4:22 am |

avy said...

shet! igo napud ko. pero yeah, you've lectured me about it before.

haayy. lesson well learned ^_^
Avy | Homepage | 04.01.07 - 7:06 am

A's journey said...

Hello, just coming by and I found this nice blog you have here.

I liked the unknown author's phrase. It really got me. I would like to really believe on that words.

Take care!
A's journey | Homepage | 04.01.07 - 9:27 am |

joy said...

awww.. this post is so enlightening... hehehe... nice one... ulit... hehehehe...
joy | Homepage | 04.01.07 - 10:11 am |

dimaks said...

Love, transcends beyond the borders of words, mind, heart, the whole universe and everything within and around it.
dimaks | Homepage | 04.01.07 - 12:14 pm |

ann said...

You echoed so many truths.
A very well thought out post.
Ann | Homepage | 04.01.07 - 11:20 am

tin said...

Aw.. love. Very nice post.
Tin | Homepage | 04.01.07 - 12:55 pm |

Tresebry said...

grabe! naantig ang puso ko dito! grabe! i love this entry! masave nga sa pc! :D
tresebry | Homepage | 04.01.07 - 7:04 pm |

Aisha said...

this is really making me speechless sobrang true..
Aisha | Homepage | 04.01.07 - 11:43 pm |

Ghee said...

ive waited for this!!LOVE!!

no one will disagree with you..wag lang sosobra ano?

in love ka ba,Tina?*wink*

happy mondayy!!!!
ghee | Homepage | 04.02.07 - 12:59 am |